Im curious as to if Im SubMaterial or if I am meant be a DOMINANT one myself. Someone once told me to truly learn to beDOM I needed to be a sub first..well lets say that didn't go over very well...didnt learn much, wasnt really explained anything. He just did as HE pleased. Im looking for aSOFT DOM who will be patient with me, Show me the what a real DOM is about..pay attention to my needs and wants not just what he wants.Im Single, 47 have a career(Sometimes happy with it sometimes not)Love music, dancing, cooking, outdoors etc. Im a bigger women but there is lots to love! IF YOU think your up to this CHALLENGEshoot me a message.....NO MARRIED MEN PLEASE!!