Escort Terminology and Abbreviations to Know: A Quick Guide

1. ABC (American-Born Chinese): Refers to escorts of Chinese descent born in the U.S.

2. Abolitionist: Refers to radical feminists who oppose prostitution, viewing it as exploitative and advocating for its end.

3. A-Level (Anal Sex): International term for the option or act of anal sex.

4. Anal Play: Erotic stimulation of the anus, which can include licking, stroking, or using toys.

5. ATM (Ass to Mouth): Often used in adult media, indicating a transition from anal to oral contact.

6. Anal Sex: Penetration of the anus with a partner’s penis.

7. BGB (Baby Got Back): Refers to having sex with a woman who has a large butt.

8. BJ (Blow Job): Oral stimulation of the penis.

9. BBBJ (Bareback Blow Job): Oral sex performed without a condom.

10. BBBJTC (Bareback Blow Job to Completion): A condom-free blow job continued until orgasm.

11. BBW (Big Beautiful Woman): Describes women with larger, curvier bodies or larger breasts.

12. BLS (Ball Licking and Sucking): Oral stimulation of a partner’s testicles.

13. B&D (Bondage and Discipline): Involves restraining and disciplining a partner to create power dynamics for pleasure.

14. BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism): Encompasses various forms of power play, often involving restraint, control, and sometimes pain for mutual pleasure.

15. Bondage: Act of tying up a partner during sexual activities.

16. Brazilian (Pubic Hair Removal): Complete removal of pubic hair.

17. CBT (Cock and Ball Torture): BDSM focused on stimulating the penis and testicles through mild pain or restriction.

18. CD (Cross-Dresser): A person who dresses in clothing traditionally associated with the opposite gender.

19. CIM (Cum in Mouth): Ejaculation in a partner’s mouth.

20. CIMWS (Cum in Mouth with Swallow): Partner swallows after ejaculation in the mouth.

21. Cisgender (Cis): Someone whose gender identity matches their birth-assigned gender.

22. COB (Cum on Body): Ejaculation on a partner’s body.

23. COF (Cum on Face): Ejaculation on a partner’s face.

24. Cougar: An older woman who seeks younger men for relationships.

25. Courtesan: A high-end escort providing companionship and intimate services.

26. DATY (Dining at the Y): Oral stimulation of the vagina.

27. DATO (Dining at the Orifice): Oral stimulation of the anus.

28. DFK (Deep French Kiss): Passionate kissing involving deep tongue contact.

29. Dirty Talk: Talking erotically during intimate moments to enhance arousal.

30. DP (Double Penetration): Involves one woman with two partners, often with penetration in different areas.

31. DDP (Double-Digit Penetration): Simultaneous penetration of the vagina and anus with fingers.

32. DT (Deep Throat): Taking the penis as deep into the mouth as possible.

33. Dominas: Female dominants who control submissive partners.

34. Fetish: A specific item, activity, or body part that creates sexual arousal.

35. FS (Face-Sitting): When a woman sits on her partner’s face.

36. Fisting: Insertion of a hand into the vagina or anus.

37. GS (Golden Shower): Sexual act involving urine.

38. GFE (Girlfriend Experience): Simulates a romantic dating experience.

39. HJ (Hand Job): Manual stimulation of the penis.

40. Happy Ending: Finishing a massage with genital stimulation to climax.

41. Italian: Rubbing the penis between a partner's buttocks.

42. Intersex: A person born with physical traits of both male and female anatomy.

43. MILF: An older woman, often with children, who is considered attractive.

44. MFF: A sexual scenario involving one man and two women.

45. MMF: A sexual scenario involving one woman and two men.

46. MSOG (Multiple Shots on Goal): Engaging in multiple rounds of sexual activity.

47. NSA (No Strings Attached): Casual sexual relationships without commitment.

48. OWO (Oral Without Condom): Oral sex performed without a condom.

49. PSE (Porn Star Experience): A service mimicking the style and energy of scenes seen in adult films.

50. Rimming: Oral stimulation of the anus.

51. Sugaring: A relationship where a younger partner (sugar baby) receives financial support from an older partner (sugar daddy).

52. Tea Bagging: Placing the scrotum in a partner's mouth.

53. Voyeurism: Sexual arousal from watching others engage in sexual activities.

54. Water Sports: Sexual activities that involve urine.

55. Whorearchy: The social hierarchy and dynamics within the sex work industry.